The Baby Boomer Generation Gap
The burgeoning genre of Baby Boomer Lit fascinates me. I
love the stories authors are telling about the challenges confronting this
generation as we face our mortality but still want to squeeze more out of life.
Often forgotten, however, is that technically, baby boomers
represent (mostly Americans) born between 1946 and 1964. That’s a span of
eighteen years, for those of you good with math or who happen to have a
calculator handy. So theoretically, two generations could be contained within
this one moniker: two generations with very different goals and ideals.
I noticed this “gap” as a teenager. My older brother and his
friends (born between 1955 and 1957) seemed to be living on a completely
separate plane from me (1961) and my younger brother (1963). Even though the
span between our ages is not that long, his lifestyle and his interests were
not ours. He wanted to go to Woodstock. I wanted to go to a Warren Zevon
concert. I partied with my friends and ended up sipping iced tea in the pool.
He partied with his friends and ended up…well, there’s a lot he doesn’t
remember from back then.
So when I began to write the story that would become The
Joke’s on Me, it seemed natural to pit two Baby Boomer sisters, born fourteen
years apart, against each other. Jude, the elder Goldberg sibling, at seventeen
puts flowers in her hair and runs off to San Francisco with a rock band. She
gets married barefooted on the beach. She lives in a commune and becomes an
early feminist, Gloria Steinem’s home phone number one of her most prized
possessions. Frankie, the menopause baby, was three when her pretty hippie
sister took off for good. She grew up cynical, caustic, and always ready to
make fun of her sister’s freewheeling generation, which forms the meat of her Hollywood
stand-up comic act.
Ironically, the two end up back in their mother’s bed-and-breakfast
in the town of Woodstock (actually about forty-three miles from the site of the
original concert at Yasgur’s Farm in Bethel, New York), spent from personal
disappointments. Following Jude’s fourth divorce, she’s returned to help Mom
run the business. Frankie’s Hollywood life falls apart with an exclamation
point when she can’t find work and her bungalow rides a mudslide into the Pacific,
leaving her only the clothes on her back and a red Corvette convertible of
questionable ownership.
Although Frankie and Jude were born fourteen years apart
into essentially different families and never had much of a relationship, the
sisters both face common baby boomer experiences. What should they do about Mom,
who has a stroke and is showing signs of Alzheimer’s? How, with their
histories, can they have any credibility taking a hard line on drugs and
alcohol with Jude’s eighteen-year-old son? And are new relationships worth the
bother, even if they’re with old flames?
Writing about these issues is a way of taking ownership of
them. And hopefully, helping others along the way, whether that’s making them
feel less alone with their problems, giving them a needed break from them, or
just sharing a good laugh or cry, depending.
About the Author
Laurie Boris is a freelance writer, editor, proofreader, and
former graphic designer. She has been writing fiction for over twenty-five
years and is the award-winning author of three novels: The Joke’s on Me, Drawing
Breath, and Don’t Tell Anyone. When not playing with the universe of imaginary
people in her head, she enjoys baseball, cooking, reading, and helping aspiring
novelists as a contributing writer and editor for IndiesUnlimited.com. She
lives in New York’s lovely Hudson Valley.
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Loved reading this Laurie and I follow you on IU as well. It's a very interesting take on boomers and the differences they share along with the similarities! Now that's a hook!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Jacquie!
DeleteThank you, Jacquie! :D
DeleteI love the premise of your book, this close look at the (often) disconcerting span of baby boomers that indeed cross two generations: they obviously ave a lot in common but much separates them too. This is the kind of theme - one that reflects life in all its various dimensions - from which great literature is made!
ReplyDeleteJust a question: I see you wrote 3 novels but here you only speak of the first, The Joke's On Me (I love the title, btw!). Are the other two novels boomer novels too, are they a follow up or something else altogether?
Thank you, Claude. One the novels, Don't Tell Anyone, is a boomer book, but the other, Drawing Breath, is contemporary novel about a teen artist who develops a crush on her art teacher.
DeleteMy oldest brother and youngest sister are fourteen years apart, so I can identify with this story. I love the idea of exploring the 'generational' differences within a generation. I'll be checking out your book.
ReplyDeleteHi, Beth, thank you. It is really interesting. We're all so different!
DeleteExcellent insightful take on the boomer generation. My sister is 12 years younger than me, was a big Monkeys fan while I bought every album of the Mamas and the Papas. Looking forward to reading your novel, Lauri.
ReplyDeleteThank you for reading, Michael!
Delete"Writing about these issues is a way of taking ownership of them." I love that line, Laurie.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing how your personal experiences gave rise to your book.
Thank you, Shelley, and thank you for the opportunity! :D
DeleteI can certainly identify with what you wrote! It seemed to me that my youngest brother and I grew up in different worlds.
ReplyDeleteAnd Baby Boomers all...
DeleteYour description of the separation of siblings is so relatable to me. Being the oldest with my youngest sibling 10 years apart, and 4 of us are practically split in 2's I understand how unrelatable we are in so many ways
ReplyDeleteYour book is being added to my reading list!
Thank you, Angil. That must have made for some interesting experiences growing up.
DeleteVery appropriate. Grouping people into generations is not an exact science. Baby boomers span many views of the world and, as you point out, the "flower power" era that seems so central to that generation only really flourished in the latter '60s. I well remember John Lennon declaring that "the dream is over" circa 1970. How devastated I felt!
ReplyDeleteNot so long ago I blogged about this subject myself. If anyone's interested, they can find it at http://meansal.wordpress.com/
Funny, meansal, I was about nine then, and I didn't know what he meant! Thanks for dropping by and for sharing your post.
DeleteHi Laurie. What a perfect and relatable premise for a book! I had the same experience with my sister and I four years apart in age with her trailing the last spectrum of the baby boomer age range. I look forward to reading your book!
ReplyDeleteSharon
Thank you, Sharon! There is so much rich material in these conflicts to mine.
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